All other women more attractive than her are whores. If she cannot name some substantive things that makes her attracted to you, then I would say she is a Gold Digger. Here is an example of how this checklist may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over 6 feet tall, rich. She has drive, and is either set in a great career or has a plan to become set in one. A girl cannot be bothered with anything domestic and is proud of the fact that she cannot cook or clean.
A confident woman has goals and dreams. Well, maybe, but you gotta draw the line somewhere. She can calculate in her head just how much you spend and how much savings you have, as well as if you have investments or a trust fund. I hope this helps some of the men wondering what to look for when trying to avoid the female player. She builds you up… then tears you down. Is she a gorgeous glamour girl in distress? They understand the world differently.
They have a history of infidelity and bad breakups. Friends are there to serve a purpose, whether it's getting the narcissist ahead, or providing positive feedback. Or, more specifically, all over your watch, your suit, your wallet, your shoes, and your car. Women are just too busy with real life to bother updating their Facebook statuses. After spending time with a woman, you feel invigorated, because she empowers you with possibility, and a passion for life. A woman cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her talents as her greatest assets.
She definitely dressed the part of those young video type girls and after a while everyone could see her motives. She just prefers internal conversations to external ones. She speaks less and works more She has beautiful words to speak but she believes in making words a reality. She understands the need for balance for his passion for her and for his goals. She competes and will even tear down another in order to secure resources or a mate.
They typically latch on to someone unsuspecting, someone like you. In the past, a man would need to mostly focus on showing a woman and her family that he was capable of providing for her. The difference is in the way the two types act, think and live their lives. Take her to a place where she can be heard, where you can easily have a conversation. Everyone has his or her own personal problems, desires, etc. Prior to discovering what I now teach here at The Modern Man, I was basically going through life hoping to get lucky with women and when in a relationship, I would just hope that the woman stuck around because I was a good guy.
To be fair, they aren't completely to blame -- women and girls have to deal with the same dynamic with. Conversation with her is meaningful -- never just to fill awkward silence. True women are truly independent. Dan Bacon Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship expert and the author of , an eBook that teaches you the easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend. Just as you have to differentiate boys from men, in the same manner you should make a difference between girls and women. We wish that we could, it would make things a whole lot easier, but we can't. Does She Only Want to Have Some Fun With You For a While? Being untrusting of some of her actions already, I knew better and used the methods I explained to you here just now.
She knows what she wants in life. Whether it's a gleaming rags-to-riches tale of their continual triumph over lesser challengers, or a with their own brilliance and difficulties, you're always a side player. A girl might need a man in her life to become a woman because of the stability he may bring to her. Avoid making condescending jokes at all costs! It looks like the dating scene is more filled with girls; than real women. Her ability to still intrigue you is something that stays far longer than beauty.
Again, many points on this post would apply if you switched the genders around. God help you if you look at one in her presence. Sometimes it may not be that she is trying to play you but you will get a clearer picture after you properly express your concerns. For example, my ex made me eat McDonalds for the first time. A gold-digger expects to be treated like royalty while never returning the favor and even drive you to become a pauper. Her and I could both sense that we were open to a full commitment.