If I can be fooled after 25 years of online dating and tech skills, anyone can. I may choose First honesty and then respect. And from your past history with men, and when you used to party and drink, I am scared you will do the same to me. Oh dont be sorry Stacey…I havent fallen for this guy but I knew he was another scam. We have been an Army family for over 8 years and have 3 kids who were all born in different states. The idea of having to keep money and gold safe for someone that you just met is a concern. They should be able to rattle off that information easier than counting to ten.
In all this, the best advice I can give is to never settle. Do not send anyone money with Western Union, there is where most of scam start. But then to my surprised the letter was telling me to pay some refundable money to process his leave from the camp. Then she told me go to Western Union to cash her 2k to the nurse who is taking care of her sister. Have you come across any support groups for military girlfriends? And I mean if this was for real and that kind of luck follows him, why do you want to be with him? I told them only to call or skype but now I am going to do exactly what you said. Being the old fool that I am, I was trying to figure out a way so we could meet but when he asked for names of single friends this morning it was as though God slapped me upside my head and told me to stop this foolishnish. He is paying her bills now after 4 months of dating.
Military spouses and significant others do not need to sign or pay for anything in relation to military coming home from overseas. Once the contact has been made, the discussion is friendly at first, but very quickly turns romantic. This is followed by outrageous lies. From chatting with him for the first time he told me he had found is sole mate, God had sent me to him and he already loves me and wanted me to marry him. At first I told him, I would see what I could do after I paid some bills, but then he asked for names of some of my single friends. If he can abide by and remain firm on these things then she will hopefully disappear from his life if she is out to take advantage of him.
We had a grainy version of Netmeeting that was as good as not seeing the person at all. I asked his passport, he did give his copy of passport to me. The absolute best way to verify is with 2 — ask him to email you from his Army email address. This would include replies from someone with little info in their profile that says nothing specifically related to your profile. Really , I recived this letter from 2 different men , they arent soldiers , they as he said English men.
It is great that you have done with him. It would be a year long heart broken process. Krystel is the mom of two and an Army Wife. Mary says: I am also being scammed, this gentleman professed his love right away, says his parents both died in car accident, that was also but survived, says he has been in the Army for 26 years and getting ready to retire only has 2 months left on his deployment. Wilson Gates to request a leave form for him….
He puts his nose to the grind and produces results. My heart is free and open also I will be happy, if I find the same heart and it will be mutual. The service pays their people every two weeks. Stop communicating with him immediately. I am nothing like I was, I have changed for the better. Send me a picture of you sitting at the computer looking at my web page or our emails.
Every journey is set out with a well defined destination in mind and it takes courage and conscious determination to arrive there. He was looking for someone to move in with and share half the expenses. Her physical description also intrigued me. He lives by his own religion — his own philosophies. When I received such a copy with the bar codes on the tickets, I was blown away and realized that this woman was indeed, flying to Calgary to meet me. On top of that, you have to manage things on the homefront by yourself.
Hi — I am hoping you can help me. Lily texted me on the phone emily was using to keep in touch with me on kik and told me emily changed flight tickets to go to L. Watch out for this guy he will say he wants to live with you because it is easier to share expenses that way. Whether their purpose is dangerous or just desperate, you want to steer clear of both of these. First of all what got me on guard, was that he was getting too sentimentally charged up way too soon, then he asked me about helping him to get a leave By the way, he is supposed to be in Afghanistan and even e-mailed me some forms which didnt look right to me and of course I asked questions and didnt think family, or friends or spouses could do that, as far as I know the soldier had to do that. If his last name can be a first name that is also something else to watch for. Nobody loses this without immediately replacing it.
Unfortunately , this scamers are very persuasive , they tell you sad stories , they want to be a father , have a happy family with you and on. I gave him this since this was something he could pretty much get off of Facebook anyway. You see, I feel there are few very basic but essential elements of a relationship. Michelle says: I agree I think They All scam. When this happens, you just have to move on and feel confident that you were astute enough to recognize the warning signs and end things without becoming a victim.