If an older man were dating a child of this age he would get the book thrown at him. Oh yeah, and did I mention he's a model? My parents are 11 year's apart. If you come across anybody like that just ask them those two questions. Find out the laws of your state. If you reeally love him, you will wait until you are 18 because in some states he can and most likely will get life in prison. I dont know if or what i should say, i also dont want to ruin a good friendship by making her feel uncomfortable if i do say something and she doesnt feel the same.
I know people are going to tell me I don't know what im talking about,That I wont feel this way when im 20 and that il regret all my actions later on in the future,Well how the hell do you know all that when you,Yourself dont know the future,And you're not me. Look, most guys go through a bad relationship or three while they're young. I would try to stick to like 3 years to your age. So, I felt I should give him a try. So I'd say go for it and if its not sexual then Its okay for you guys to date. Therefore he comes here to accomodate my schedule and spends the night etc. He may get hurt, he may have risked the same hurt with a partner of his own age.
Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before, All thanks to Dr Unity. Now I am 23 and he is 31 and we are expecting our first child together. We are like you guys, we don't do anything we shouldn't and he is ok with waiting until i'm 16 in the uk you have to be 16 to be able to have sex legally. This is a tough one Mom, but as long as you stand by your son and keep him close, I imagine this will all pass. He wants different things then I do, i'm still young and being realistic, I want to enjoy my youth, go out, have fun. What am I letting myself in for? What is so urgent that it can't wait until she's legal? I remember being 18 though and I wanted to be care free and have no boundries, just make sure you two are on the same page when it comes to your relationship. Take him down to the police station and let them explain to him.
If you are having issues with another user, message the moderators to help you deal with it and do not fight in the comments. If the break up is bad, he could go to jail if they have sex and be labled a sex offender. This could cause consequences for the rest of his life! Surely people of these ages are in a different place in their lives and it wouldn't work. Just as importantly, my husband wasn't interested in any 14-year-olds at the age of 26. There are definitely problems with your scenario, though. I talked to my buddy from college after his first kid and asked how it was. So if you want to be with someone that age, look into all that may come from it.
Do you like either of these guys? You better be good and ready to give it up. But I have no shame and no regret of what I have done,And I dont care if I get thumbs down. Around 23 or 24 for kids and maybe younger for marriage. I have a boyfriend that just turned 24 and he is charming and such a gentlemen,And must I say the sex is great :. He never pushed me to do anything i didn't want. I give it two years at the most.
A 14-year-old may never have even kissed a guy I left home before I had my first kiss! They threatened to call the cops on me. It doesn't sound like much now when they have been happily married for almost 20 years and have 3 kids. It seems to me that so far this relationship is just dating and not to serious and you havent really expressed feelings of wanting to be with her for the rest of your life. If it is really meant to be, your relationship will last and it will not matter what stage you are in your lives. In fact, the whole thing is quite odd.
A female reader, anonymous, writes 25 March 2009 : I am 17 soon to be 18 and my boyfriend of 8months is 26. If you can afford to it is a better option than prison. I feel that sex is a special and intimate thing, and although i dont believe entirely in 'no sex until marriage', i believe that even though i feel i am ready to experience it, that the longer i wait the more special it will become, and having a guy willing to wait for me is a blessing, and something that i wouldn't expect from any male to be honest! I am afraid this wont keep her. Best thing I ever did in my life! She was super smart, mature and all of that so I thought she was possibly in her mid-20's. Maybe it's a phase, maybe it's not.
It doesn't matter how intelligent she is. Well I'm 21 in college and I wouldn't touch an 18 year old in high school. Actually weve been together 3 years now. I do have a male friend who is 25 and dated a 19 year old. I dont think its wrong for a girl that is young 14,15,16 to date or like a older guy,Or have sexual relations. There is just no future in this, so why even start it? A woman's body does not completely finish maturing until her early 20s, either.
It's fine if you're just looking to keep it casual, but don't go in with long term plans. You must be a participating member in our community outside your own submissions and have submitted comments outside of your own posts before you're allowed to link. When linking please provide a description of the discussion you'd like to have about the link you're sharing. As far as the law goes its none of there business. A female reader, , writes 12 December 2005 : Ok so is your question what are the possible outcomes and results of you and the 18 year old girl getting together? Ask yourself do you want to get inolved with a girl and get really attached then have to break it off becasue of the differences that wont let it work? Please stop with the bullshit that there pedophiles.
For the past 4 or 5 months I've been seeing guys 3-6 years older than myself. And please don't just give in to your rampant temptations, without making sure that she also understands what kind of relationship you're after. To have someone there to support me and be with me was amazing, and something i wouldnt expect with a younger guy. I am at such a loss here, but you all are echoing my Husband. That's usually the biggest issue when it comes to age 'gaps'. Do you have a question for parents? I know he is going to have to make his own choices and mistakes, but I really wish he could have waited a bit more And stranger: you hit the nail on the head with the maturity thing, he is a very mature boy, and I totaly see your point. Vote and participate in the and report rule violations.