And I told myself that I no longer was going to be an emotional cutter. Probably not the best route but I am hurt and I want him to hurt. Nothing good comes out of situations like these. I need distance from this man because regardless of what my brain is telling me, my feelings have not gone away. My readers are discussing how difficult, painful, and destructive it is to keep hanging on to an affair with a married man.
I miss every moment without him. And I do what I can do to give him advise and help him. Did they know that he was married? A female reader, , writes 3 February 2007 : Hi girl please walk away as hard as it is Ive been there. He married her almost immediately after our divorce but the both tried to convince me or themselves that there was no affair. Nobody knew about it but an extremely good friend in the office. I thought he really loved me, but it is a sham because he will always go back with her, he will never leave her, if I told her right now it would probably only make them closer, as these stories make me realize. He was my supervisor at my previous job.
I'm part of an open marriage currently and it's incredibly difficult to explain to people that, yes, there is a difference between cheating and having multiple partners. My boyfriend who said who loved me everyday never called me even once after I messaged his wife. We exchanged information and one day we set up a lunch date. I received a message, and decided to meet up. You are intruding upon her turf. I was suffocating and unhappy in a marriage that has lasted for almost 15 years.
He will agree and still call me, text me or tell me to come outside at work. I feel disgusted by myself, and I feel even more disgusted because I still love him. I was married at 19 and stayed for 26 years. I want him back, idk why he doesnt try to get me back. If the goal is happiness, then marriage can be a path to that version of it. He was asking me to borrow money and I gave it to him. My mother fell in love with another man and she had his child and despite all of that, my father stayed with her.
Sure it was only an affair but I developed feelings and became very attached. I gave him until New Years Eve. Hold on to your future — for it is brighter than you imagine After my reader Kay broke up with the married man she was having the affair with, she experienced deep grief and heartache. If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you. I saw a guy on and off for about a couple of months. Gifting him the best of alcohol and chocolates remembering his choices. I csnt even talk to my best friend abt this.
The conversation has been good and helpful, but I have to turn off the comments on this article simply because there are too many. We still msg often and he told me he still is around to chat with me but wants me to be happy and move on with my life. I feel like going on sick leave for depression. Or to his wives…we talk about my future my qualification level and so on …he always hold my hand whenever we r in a car and we always got faster into it…. If you're hurting, think of how his wife would feel. Another great book about dating is. He told me he doesnt love his wife.
Thank you for those words, it should only give us more strength to stay away! He was on disability but he did everything for everyone. I am a very attractive 49 year old woman who is divorced with grown children. If so, what did they think about it? He is a Dr, and has a sin that is a Dr. She blamed him for things and also that their 3rd child again is a son. He also explained that they were both virgins on their wedding night. On Monday in front of other people in passing he asked how my weekend was even tho he texted me through half of it.
I often browse the internet, in the hope of a good advice or something to enlighten me, make me wake up from this. Our conversations have shortened, and at times he actually completely ignores my texts until a couple of days later, when he sends something to me that is completely unrelated to what I had asked him all those days ago. Oy He and his son even drove me home asked to be dropped at local Starbucks. I asked for an abortion he stopped me claiming he wants us to have the baby. I hate that I love this man soo much and he has taken me to places that I would never had gone without him.