I am currently in a relationship with a 67 year old man. I don't desire to be with younger man, I love my status, I enjoy our conversations and we also have music in common. If you love to cook, paint, sing — whatever it may be — it's there for a reason and for you to embrace. Yet societal norms still exist. That questions kept playing in my head.
If anyone feels the same way about him- or herself, then trust me that there is hope. Penguins can't fly, and that's just the way they're made. They generally do not date women in their own age bracket. I'm not a gold-digger; he just has a nicer home and car than I do. Like someone with no more options, I turned back a cheaper alternative: my friends. I do get sad thinking about him living this world before me.
I am 63 and single and involved with a 25 year old woman, thus far just online. Every man has his own definition of what is hot and sexy. Maybe if they saw pictures of them when they were younger, but not in their current age right now. But, as men age and mature, so do their wants and needs. I am trying to maintain some degree of integrity and remind her that I am not her father and never will be. She is very cute and is learning a lot about the world of late. He has children two of which are close to my age , and they're all urging us to go ahead and get serious so they can have a brother or sister.
That means showing independence, confidence, passion, and compassion. A date I recently went on showed the woman to be intelligent, sweet, accomplished, and attractive. I believe all of that, but I can't believe that someone would love me? I didn't even get a response. And there is the showoff factor, Hey, look at me! As you can probably guess, that didn't happen for me. It's possible, but needless to say, nothing happened. Maybe a chance to be a father after a childless life, maybe a future nursemaid. I'm finally at the point in my life where I finally believe the great things people say about me.
The experts agree that men in mid-life want a woman who is a partner, not a parent. She could even understand your feelings and will change depending upon the situations. If a pattern begins to show, it usually right. I want the sandwich all to myself. I would finish elementary school, then high school and then off to college. In the real world of dating, there are few actual rules. Now, I'm not the usual suspect when it comes to being perpetually single.
Our age gap isn't quite as noticeable, but it's there. Many men over 60 are still looking for hot, sexy women. For one thing, most people do not want their relationship to be the equivalent of gossip tabloid fodder among their own social circles. She will treat you like a Child. I always thought of how great it would feel to be able to elicit such a reaction from a woman.
A friend told me things are put in our hearts for a reason. I tend to dress rather professionally and he's a big tall ex-athlete who is still very active, so I think that helps with not getting stares in public. When I see a 65 year old man going with a much younger woman I usually think gold digger. I was hoping she was in her late twenties. This leads to some reasonable results. A 40-year-old should stick with someone at least 27.
Let's say by some miracle I made it through a few dates, and things progressed. Well, physically I am I was not blessed with great beauty. It confirmed everything I had always thought of myself. Many older—and even younger—men would agree that telling a man what feels good is a turn-on. So, here I stand, a man who desperately wants to know love. When one is a septuagenarian billionaire, what else is there to do? My best friend thought it was a good idea for me to ask out an acquaintance I had been telling him about. Listen to your partner, speak to him about what you want, and find your way together.
Don't let children pull you away from him, in fact, if he's really into his children, that's good character on his part. They rather settle quickly than date extensively. I will free myself from this prison. I imagine walking down the street with her and what people will think about me. She has a strong father hunger as she was raised by her dad and aunt and devastated when he passed a couple of years ago at 73.
I was, however, blessed with great people skills. . If not physically, then there must have been something wrong mentally. Men, in general, are not good about expressing their feelings and even more so for men who are older. This may seem like a small setback, but it cut deep. Even our differences, because there are many different needs and interest, we enjoy eachother so much. When you get sick and tired of being sick and tired, that's when that light shines on you, and you can start the long journey out into the sun.