Be honest and cut him some slack. Yet, only 10 percent of these marriages were between men and women with that optimal age difference. I love this man and I dont see him as an age, he is an amazing, kind, sexy, hot, gentle man. More and more we see much older men and women marrying younger, and its great! We started dating when he was 22 and I was 27. He is so respectful of all of the achievements I have, sweet and very loving…he also talks me up so much to his friends as though I'm a princess I like to think it's not just because I'm older and have done more, but still….
But the more we talked I realized he has an old soul. Suppose she cannot give you children? Anonymous My story is a bit different. We met in church when he was 16 and I was 52. The sex is out of this world he's in my top 3; I've also dated a man 9yrs older than me I was 18, he was 27 and it lasted 4 yes but I usually am not attracted to older men. Im finding this much younger man to be more mature than most men I meet my age! I chose not to go on with him ever. So to those of you saying yuck etc.
Your view is its sickening so you think to made snide not so covert cutting remarks about older women staying in their lane. I was engaged a few years ago and my ex-fiance and I tried to have a child for a year he is younger and has 2. Everyone says we are a good looking couple too. We dated a while and once he made me feel safe and we got intimate he broke my heart and became incredibly cruel. Some old people are hot, some young people are not. He never looks twice or stares at a pretty woman in my presence. I get more communication and understanding from him than the other two men in my life.
He acts an complete fool whenever I am out of his sight…. As it was we had an on off for 3 years. Socially You may need to start skipping the traditional Thursday through Sunday bar scene with the girls to appease his lifestyle. I am seriously thinking about writing a book about the whole thing Anonymous I'm much older than the ladies who have posted here, but here we go. Im 30 years old and my 19 year old mate was inlove with me for foir months and we dating long distance and its our love thats keeping us hoojng for the future. An evolutionary shift which will lead to another problem: a population explosion and the need for a new planet. When she asked me to name some things that I enjoy, hobbies etc.
The love that we have developed for each other is a true life experience and I am thankful we have been brought into each others lives. I am worried that as I become more attached he is becoming more disinterested. Now my 40 year old husband, that would be a bigger issue-if he was a regular guy. He took me places, we enjoyed times together. So I stopped trying to be honest about my age about a year ago and everything goes smoothly… until now. We talk openly about what we want from the relationship. The math helps me to manage my initial feelings of ickiness! We still live in an age where men get to age like credenzas, and women like unrefrigerated dairy.
What is wrong of you is to lead this woman to believe that you want a future with her, with or without kids. I hope to read a story about long lasting love despite age. He's a few months younger than my baby brother! The man I dated before him was 4 years older than I am. He was 21 when we dated and I was 26. He reminded me just how much living I still had to do, that I was still sexy, and that dating could be fun.
I agree with knifewrench, but since I don't think it's wrong and that's what I feel the question is really asking I picked no. The girl might have an old soul and they could get along. If you feel this is love, I am not sure the hesitancy. If you find your soul mate and find someone you have chemistry, then age does not matter. That coming from a woman who is ten years younger than me. All our friends and my family are so happy for us which is great and never bring up the age gap.
I even told a few of my friends that he was 5 years younger than me and they say that's not bad. I am 44 and full of energy and I found that I got bored with my husband whos 47! The average person is Marylin Manson. I took him to my parents and he calls them on his own now. You finally have placed the puzzle together for the trend of frendship. Marriage customs or the availability of reindeer to support a new family the Sami people are reindeer herders might be the reason that more Sami marriages did not display the optimum age difference, Helle says. Jandurin What's the point of dating if you're 20? I contend that as long as nobody is being willfully creepy I see you, guys in Ferrari hats , this kind of limitation is mega lame. None happen to come up for adoption and that's fine cause we had no plans either way.