Maybe he's transgendered and doesn't have a male part down there yet and is really a female down there. Last time he came i couldn't pretend anymore i told him i don't love him anymore and I'm not interested in any marriage with him he treathen to block my passport, to harm me , etc. I kept thinking about all my shortcomings, and clearly thought this was a short term something not being able to figure out what will happen. I don't love him anymore and i can't marry for money i definitely know that i won't be satisfied sexually and i would be having sex out but i don't want that kind of marriage I'm also thinking about my son because he needs medical attention everytime he's an albino. Please if u have the time let me know how its going for you.
He is established and knows what he wants. He had his party days and was established in his career and was all excited to play house…for real. I really find it so hard to think that this will work. I would really like to hear from women who are with men 20-40 yrs. They always ask for me and want to show me what they made me in school.
There is potential that you could never be financially equal to him, accepting this is key. I am 37 and this guy is 61, we met because his dad lived in the senior community where i work. I have been with my guy for 14 yrs. I loved this post so much because I've always dated older men my current boyfriend is 36 and I'm 25. I guess you can say I'm in the throes of a major midlife crisis.
He treated her poorly, and admitted to cheating on her during a short business trip. But I left to keep doing my work. I am 50 and I can be equally attracted to a woman in her 20s or a woman in her 60s. Anonymous Whaat a lovely story…and ya'll put me at ease because i can relate. Joy, If the guy only goes for young women, he's not seeing you as an option because you're not young. Hopefully, you are comfortable enough in your own sense of moral and ethical values to be able to judge if the relationship is appropriate or not for example, I would imagine age can mess with a workplace romance or it could be difficult to date the father of a kid you teach. Him being 50 doesn't bother me bcuz I dont see him as 50.
So two things I see happening to other women to watch out for. Things would fly off the walls and doors would slam at night. I stumbled upon this post when I googled, '50 year old man'. I am a single mum and loving him is just a wonderful feeling though its wrong. It has been difficult to get past the awkward glances and stares at restaurants.
What are they both doing now is what I'm more interested in. Anonymous I am 47 and in a relationship with a man 66. Plus I need to learn the Language to be able to work. It was the best gift anyone has given me. Don't know where to put my finger, but I'm crazy in love with the middle-aged man.
You are trying to constantly prove to others that i have done this, i have done that. Like I said , enjoy this for what it is but please remember you got your whole life in front of you , and many things to experience. Anonymous He's divorced and has been for exactly 2 years. He was just dressing me up and showing me off and wanting me to be there for him at all times. I believe that can be true the other way around as well. I love men for who they are but do acknowledge I simply feel more attracted to older men.
Was there an instant attraction? We first met while doing the same course during undergrad. I have a career in the entertainment industry. Iam still a virgin and he respects me too much. It was during the 8th hour of our first date. Maybe, had I been dirt poor, I would have forced myself to marry a much older man but since I did not have to, I did not. Be a lady, and take thought of your every move you make.
They never shouted or hurt each other and loved each other til death did my father part. Talk to him, listen to him, share ideas. No, there no political correctness on my comments, just the ugly cold and hard facts! Women from overseas are taught to take care of their man, unlike American women. In a few years, it might not be as big of an issue, but you are barely an adult at this point. I am in love with a man who is 20 years older than me. And partly because it churned up some of the unanswered questions I and some of my friends! I was always that girl who thought it was odd for women to date men more than 5 years older than her.
My parents married when they are in their 30s. What some young women who are in their 20's fail to realize is that if they are dating a man who is 20-35 yrs. If you love each other, that's all that matters. Since its so early in the relationship I think i'm going to let God decide when is a good time to bring it up but it's driving me crazy, like I just want to know if he would be interested in having one? We have been married for 8 years out of the 10. His wife and his children will always be his top priority. I'm a highly spiritual woman, and believe in a higher power. But we just have to ignore it because we are happy and that's what matters.