This man adores me and I haven't had that in a very long time. We have been friends for over two years now. He has a farm he loves and I have a house in town. It can be more challenging to meet older guys, who are unlikely to hang out in the same venues frequented by the post-college crowd. He is a great provider, father etc.
All of this makes it easier for younger women to meet and date younger men. I think most people date people within 10 years of their own age but that's not always the case. But I left to keep doing my work. But, it's a very individualistic situation. He has never met anyone else like me and I have never met anyone else like him, though half of my social circle are about his age. I am starting to figure this isn't so much of a age gap but a habbit.
We have been together for almost 4 years so far. Please let me clarify that this is not just about sex from either side. He told me he was divorce with 2 kids he was living alone the kids used to come once in the while. I am 37 and this guy is 61, we met because his dad lived in the senior community where i work. I have 2 kids outside before I met him and he's got 1 child. I do care about her and text her nice stuff.
It's rare for me to find someone like this, you see. I would enjoy the moment with him as he is with you. Just look at how younger people are: spoiled, superficial, less gallant and also less virile. Becsuse I don't want to hurt him I find myself masterbating but I am generally unsatisfied. I think you know what you want to do, so I say best of luck! I tend to be clingy and need to remember to give him space every now and again.
I'm not have an affair I'm married to an older man. My girlfriend too says she likes me because I've got a lot of depth and experience for my age. Her parents were very accepting of the relationship because we didn't just jump in the deep end. Question Posted Tuesday December 16 2008, 10:29 pm Is a 21-year-old girl too young to be dating a 35-year-old? I will say there are a lot of hurdles when it comes to age gap relationships and him and I have been through some questionable times but we love each other very much and talk about everything. This most likely will not last. What matters is how you feel about eachother. Depends on the individual and how serious they were about dating.
We are all so different, though. Physically he may not be able to do all the activities with your child that are expected of a father. Maybe we are a lucky couple but we are proof that age gaps can work. In their early twenties, young girls are still trying to come to terms with their identity. I was incredibly lucky to be introduced to a man. Kyle Jones, a 31-year-old Pittsburgh guy, was in the news for with 91-year-old great-grandmother, Marjorie McCool. Best of luck to everyone in this situation and if you are still around thread started it would be great to hear an update.
I have to chime in here because I could not honestly take some of the comments on here seriously. A balance of needs makes a relationship successful. If a man dates many women and is single past a certain age, women often make the assumption that he must be flawed in some way, a womanizer or a man that refuse to grow up. You have to know what you want. He has the most amazing smile and eyes.
At my age, I don't have time to go to bars, go out with the homies, or hang out at nightclubs chasing women. He said to me he has just found his soul mate. I was a strong Mensa candidate when I was 14. Not every age-gap relationship is doomed to fail. Psychologically, they reach emotional maturity much sooner than men.
There does come a point when the age gap is embarrassing. I think it's okay as long as she's legal. The most important thing to know about Mr. So much for financial security. Forget the ages and just determine if you two click on other levels.